Relationships hold a variety of components and though we like to omit sexual desire as one; it’s definitely a problem. I think it’s quite hilarious when men think that sex isn’t as important to women as it is to men like it’s a birth right for men to be the only ones pleasured or be the only ones who want it. Another myth to shatter is women won’t walk away from a relationship with horrible sex especially when emotions haven’t developed completely. Newsflash people, we will. Women want to be sexually liberated in the privacy of their bedrooms and men have to deliver. Sex has to be pleasurable for both parties. I’m not saying premarital sex is the best option, but if you are going to partake in premarital sex it better be damn good.
When couples decided to physically display their love for each other by making love both parties are completely responsible for pleasuring the next. Sex should be a journey the two explores to find the beautiful ending in an orgasm honestly, but when sex is bad other components in the relationship go bad. The problem is people are thinking more with their bodies and not with their hearts. Sex is an emotional activity, but is being used for lustful selfishness. Men must realize that women love sex just like the next man and when they don’t acknowledge they sex can tend to be awful and women want to move on to the next.
Women want a man that provides, protects, proclaims, and SHOWS OUT in the bedroom. When a man has the three p’s down we are crossing fingers hoping the show out part is a part of the package deal. But women aren’t innocent either; women must not only lay there for her pleasure but come up with new inventive ways to pleasure their man. Don’t use your argument to keep away the erotica and don’t tease that man because boring or nonexistent sex can end your relationship.
The question remains: can sex really ruin a relationship? And I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but yes, it can. What happens is that the unsatisfied partners mind and urges begin to wander to others. It’s a true statement that what you won’t do another will because there are so many people looking for that person that can completely blow their mind. Remember, communication is always key in any situation and so if there is a sexual related issue be sure to bring it up in a sensitive way. Women, don’t be harsh and men, don’t let your pride get you caught out there. You want to please your mate with your emotional, physical, and spiritual side so make sure you have all these down.
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